How to Celebrate Small Wins in Your Burnout Recovery Process
I can’t seem to talk enough about burnout. Yet, it became one of my areas of expertise because I noticed it in almost all of my clients – even the ones who came to me for therapy for things that, on the surface, seemed completely unrelated! In short, burnout is a pervasive bitch. If you’ve been following my blogs, then by now, you probably have a good sense of what burnout is, how to beat it without quitting your job, what it looks like for parents, partners, and so much more. However, I have yet to talk about one of the most important features of burnout recovery which is noticing and celebrating small wins along the way.
If I’m being honest, the journey to burnout recovery can be daunting. Still, one of the most effective strategies is to recognize and celebrate small wins along the way. These moments of progress can boost your morale, reinforce positive habits, and help you regain a sense of control over your life (and be honest, you love being in control). Here’s how to identify, appreciate, and celebrate those small victories during your burnout recovery process.
Understanding Burnout Recovery
Before diving into celebrating small wins, it’s important to understand what burnout recovery entails. Burnout can manifest as emotional exhaustion, depersonalization, and a reduced sense of accomplishment. Recovery isn’t linear; it involves ups and downs, making it essential to focus on incremental progress rather than striving for an immediate return to full productivity. And since recovering from burnout can take several months (or more depending on how long you have been burnt out), reminders of your progress can help you feel more effective and circumvent feelings of hopelessness along the way.
Why Celebrating Small Wins Matters
Boosts Motivation: Recognizing small victories provides a motivational boost, reminding you that progress is possible. Each small win reinforces your commitment to your burnout recovery.
Builds Confidence: Celebrating achievements, no matter how minor, fosters a sense of accomplishment. This can build your confidence to tackle larger challenges in the future.
Enhances Well-Being: Acknowledging your efforts can improve your mental and emotional well-being. It shifts your focus from what’s lacking (i.e., “But I still haven’t been able to get 8 hours of consistent sleep per night”) to what you’ve achieved (i.e., “I’ve been able to get 2 more hours of sleep per night than I did before, and I’ve been able to take more breaks throughout the day”). Acknowledging your efforts can help cultivate a more positive mindset.
Identifying Small Wins
Small wins are subjective and can vary from person to person. Here are some examples to help you identify your own victories:
Daily Routines: Did you manage to get out of bed on time? Did you stick to a morning routine that helps you feel grounded? These are significant achievements in recovery.
Emotional Awareness: Recognizing your feelings and understanding your triggers can be a crucial step. Acknowledging that you felt overwhelmed but took a moment to breathe (instead of reacting or spiraling) is worth celebrating.
Social Interactions: Engaging in a conversation with a friend or colleague can be a win, especially if you’ve been isolating yourself. Each interaction builds your community and research shows that community is one of the best buffers against burnout, as well as depression and anxiety disorders.
Self-Care Practices: Did you walk, meditate, or indulge in a hobby? Small acts of self-care contribute to your overall recovery and should be recognized.
Setting Boundaries: Learning to say no or setting limits on your work can be a significant milestone in protecting your mental health. Did you set the intention to stop working at 6 PM and follow through? Did you say ‘no’ to that extra thing you did not want to do and did not provide an elaborate explanation? Congrats, you are on your way to setting healthier boundaries for yourself.
Celebrating Your Wins
Once you’ve identified your small wins, it’s time to celebrate them! Here are some creative and meaningful ways to do so:
Journaling:
Keep a gratitude or progress journal where you note down your small victories. Reflecting on these moments can provide a sense of accomplishment and allow you to track your recovery journey over time.
Create a Win Board:
Visual representation can be powerful. Set up a bulletin board or digital space where you post your small wins. This can serve as a daily reminder of your progress and motivate you to keep going.
Reward Yourself:
Incorporate small rewards for each win. It could be treating yourself to your favorite snack, watching an episode of a show you love, or spending time on a hobby. Rewards create positive associations with your efforts.
Share with Others:
Don’t hesitate to share your wins with friends, family, or support groups. Celebrating together can enhance your sense of community and support, making your journey feel less isolating.
Mindfulness and Reflection:
Take a moment each day to be intentionally present to reflect on your wins. Mindfulness practices, such as a body scan, deep breathing, or mindful eating, can help you connect with your feelings of accomplishment and gratitude. My favorite mindfulness practice right now is this 10-minute body scan video. Transparent moment: I can make it to about minute 7 before I start dozing off. Remember, practice is the key here, not perfection.
Set Up a Celebration Ritual:
Create a small ritual that you perform whenever you achieve a win. It could be lighting a candle, playing your favorite song, or taking a moment to appreciate what you’ve accomplished.
Final Thoughts from a Manhattan Burnout Therapist
Recovering from burnout is a journey that requires patience, self-compassion, and resilience. By celebrating small wins, you can cultivate a more positive outlook on your progress and foster a deeper connection with your recovery process. Every step forward, no matter how small, brings you closer to reclaiming your well-being. Embrace these moments and allow them to fuel your path to recovery.
Small Wins, Big Impact: Celebrating Progress on Your Burnout Recovery Journey
Feeling stuck in burnout can feel like an uphill battle, but you don’t have to do it alone. At The Lavender Therapy, I specialize in helping people just like you overcome burnout, reclaim their energy, and celebrate the wins – no matter how small. If you're ready to start making real progress and need some support along the way, let's chat.
Learn more about burnout recovery by reading my blogs.
Together, we’ll create a plan that helps you thrive, one small win at a time!
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About The Author:
Dr. Ruby Rhoden is a New York-based Licensed Psychologist who is dedicated to uplifting women through life changes and challenges, including reproduction. She understands how unhelpful behavior patterns and mental health disorders uniquely impact women and uses evidence-based techniques to usher in sustainable change and relief. With a focus on helping clients reconnect with themselves and find effective self-care strategies, Dr. Ruby provides personalized therapy to address the root causes of burnout. Dr. Ruby is also dedicated to helping women develop healthier habits and relationships with themselves and their bodies so that they can connect to others and the world around them again. Dr. Ruby studied at Cornell University and Rutgers, The State University of New Jersey for her Bachelor's and Doctoral degrees, respectively. In her free time, she enjoys watching reality TV, supporting small businesses, and writing blog posts to remind all women that they are not alone.
